Budapest: A New Adventure

Moving to Budapest was a new beginning for me, not only in my life but also the start of a wonderful adventure: “Central Europe, here I come!”.

Cultural shocks are something I can say I am an expert in. After living in four different countries especially during my two years long incredible experience in India, I thought I am ready to affront all the challenges Budapest throws in my pretty face.

So, the first day has come. My friend, me, both excited to be here, and some city transport tickets in our hands. The “proud” moment was quickly interrupted by a ticket controller which developed into a “shame” and “expensive” moment. This 25 € each fine assured us never to forget it again (Always validate your ticket). The “easy prey” syndrome was obvious in our situation, stay on guard. The magic of the city made us push down the first negative encounter with madam Budapest.

When you shout Budapest, the echo would be nightlife. One is sure, Budapest is one of the few Danube capitals in central Europe famous for its clubbing scene. (hint: check out amazing Vienna, charming Bratislava, and one and only Belgrade) So, we hit the dancing floor!

First day here, first night out, and a beautiful friendship was born between me on the one side and Budapest’s nightlife. Although I couldn’t drink alcohol, due to recent small surgery, I enjoyed and had fun. I enjoyed it so much, that I had to come back again, and again, just to make sure I experienced it properly.  😀

I would describe myself as a people person, always networking. Hanging out with interesting new people, conversations, debating, and exchange of various brave, amazing ideas, is the source of my innovation engine; the engine I carry around by my side and fuel it with others dreams, hopes, ambitions, challenges, fellow travelers, change-makers and future entrepreneurs. That’s fine and nice, but let’s talk integration-style. Let me show you my Hungarian: … (blank space indicates that my current knowledge is not measurable due to brain constructions)

I did try to master Hungarian, but the reality was different. (small hint on the side Duolingo is really impatient with French-speaking clients) I would lie, if I would say that everybody was super nice and patient with my Hungarian, of course, there was some good old mocking too. All of this is a part of local culture, and I want to learn and see every part of Budapest.  It’s challenging my character and views, but it also helps me leave my comfort zone and step into the active one where I can grow. Isn’t that the goal behind every life adventure we step in?

To do that, we need to try going local and getting along with locals. Long story short – I failed to build up my local inner circle and enjoy that privilege. On the one hand, it’s me who is more comfortable within an international (read French-speaking) community. But on the other hand, due to many factors, I didn’t manage to meet up and connect with natives.

Something that you shouldn’t miss out on is the amazing experience of being a proper tourist, wherever you travel. So,  I started visiting tourist places in Budapest. Admiring the outstanding architecture makes me wanna travel through time and feel the spirit of old Budapest. Every building has its story, hides its secrets and history. Be aware, Budapest is divided by its majestic Danube into two “towns” of its own: Buda, with its romantic atmosphere on one side, and Pest, a dynamic cultural center on the other. Among other things, Citadella, fishermen bastion, chain bridge, Nehru part, Id Antall József rakpart (long walk by the Danube river), Vàrosliget are just some of my favorite spots that stand out. Whether night or day, one is certain, this city seduces you and steals your heart.

I am the best proof of that. Here I am three years later still conquering the streets of Budapest.

——> Wanna join me in exploring other hidden places in Budapest? Don’t hesitate to reach out.

This story is shared by Edem Dodjivi Koffi

Edem Koffi is a graphic designer, digital marketer, and young smart entrepreneur from Togo who enjoys exploring new places and solving bold problems. He was part of AIESEC (a youth leadership movement passionately driven by one cause: peace and fulfillment of humankind’s potential) when he was a student.

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